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Tuesday, February 12, 2008 - 11:59pm
The song for a broken heart
Helo Daughtry`s guys..i have been your big fans since you were competing in American Idol..it`s great that you finally released your album.I have your aCD already!your song OVER YOU really..makes me stronger!6 months ago i had an intuition that my BF started being unfaithful..however everytime i asked he denied..i tried to trust him..then i accidentallyread a short-message on his mobile,from one of his sisters,reminding him of not being too close with one of his relative..i asked him but it seems he didn`t take my question seriously,he only answered"well..she likes me but i don`t"..still i started feeling there must be something wrong...then i asked one of his sisters,but she didn`t know anything regarding that..then he finally found out that i asked his sister and it`s the first time i asked his sister about something like that..then he broke me up,at first i didn`t tell the truth coz i didn`t want to make their sibling relationship worsen...the i finally told the truthi aploqized and i explained why i did that because of our commitment.he MADE commitment,he wanted me to fight for our relationship..still he said"i`ve forgiven you but i don`t want to continue our relationship enymore.hope you understand.thank you"..then a month later he said that he has someone special..GOD!my intuition is RIGHT just before i asked his sister..ironically he is my brother-in-law`s cousin and my mom has started asking everything about him(my ex)..I cried..even now i am typing this message and crying after i saw his picture with his new lover on friendster accidentally..i saw OVER YOU clip on MTV,then i bought your CD,i read the lyrics one by one..and it reflects what i have been feeling recently...the song makes me cry and feel stronger,get angry...but at least as it`s said in the lyrics"when you slammed the front door shut a lot of others opende up so did my eyes so i could see that you never were the best for me.."and"now that it`s all said and done i can`t believe you`re the one you build me up and tear me down..like an old abandoned house..."but "i m finally getting better.."now i have found someone..my ex at campus..we separated 10 years ago..he experiences the same thing like me..now i feel grateful(eventough i still feel sad sometimes)that GOD gives THE BEST in the PERFECT TIME..thank you Daughtry..thank you a lot for that song..hope i can get much stronger now..
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Daughtry will help ya to see things from different point of views. Be positive and the positive will be returned to you. Arguing like mad is not gonna help at all. Sit down and talk, if it's getting nasty, meet the next day. Just keep up the communication. That's all you need to get in touch with each other. Your kids will see, that even if you broke up, you are true grown ups they can look proudly at as they still find a way to talk to each other. The worse would be to create a picture of talking = arguing in your kids mind. You still gotta be a role model for the kids, no matter if you are not with your lady anymore. Show her that you care but don't wrap it in aguments and reproaches (not sure if I spelled it correctly). You can't chance the past, only work on the now and future.
Greetz from Germany.
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~*~ PLEDGE MAMMA #4 ~*~
*** Daughtry rocks Germany ***
Well my story is similar. I was happyly married with my girl for 6 years but we where together a total of 13years to consider my age that i´m only 29 and we have 3 kids now.
I found out that she had been with my closest friend and if that wouldnt enough she had been with another friend of mine.
So that totally killed me and broke everything inside of me.
So now im going thru a difficult faze in my life. We are arguing like mad cause she is denying me to see my kids cause she thinks im a psyco.
But these songs really help when i feel down and angry.
Excuse my English it aint the best. (Live in Sweden) But the sad part is that i think i still love eventhough what she has done.
But i'm taking it day by day to get over her.
But damn it takes time.
I wish my feeling and mind was a hardrive and i could just delete everything.
I'm with ya, those meaningful lyrics of all of the Daughtry songs just support us throughout the worst. Over you seem to fit in many lives, which makes it even better.
Stay stong and if ya feel down, come here and meet the DO family.
Greetz Indonesia from Germany.
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~*~ PLEDGE MAMMA #4 ~*~
*** Daughtry rocks Germany ***
Thank you for sharing your story and how much a song can mean to you.
'Over You' has been meaning just the same for my daughter lately, and I've been feeling the meaning of the words for her. She also said she's been playing it over and over - and her friend's been laughing 'that song again'!
She recently broke up with her partner who has been mentally and emotionally abusing her for years. Finally she had the courage to part for good - and the words of 'Over You' are so right!
Slamming that door shut has opened up a new beginning for her and her children. And she's seemed happier than for years - and keeps doing things and saying 'because I CAN'!
That song could have written for her - as well as for you jasmeen!!
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~*~PLEDGE MAMMA #5~*~